Sacred Standards 30 Day Challenge
Set your standards, switch on self-safety, and learn to date again without repeating past patterns.
We start December 15th
Your brain says “I’m ready to date again.”
Your body says “Not if we get hurt again.”
Dating after an abusive, toxic or narcissistic relationship isn’t exciting - it’s terrifying.
You want connection, but your body remembers danger.
You second guess everything...
Your worth, your signals, your standards.
You are overly gaurded while craving true intimacy and commitment.
You self-sabotage perpetuating the idea that it's easier to be alone - meanwhile, you know deep down you have healing to do.
You’re scared you’ll miss the red flags, fall for potential, break your boundaries, be manipulated, confuse attention for affection, or abandon yourself yourself again.
I created the Sacred Standards 30-Day Challenge because you deserve to date from a safe, sacred, and self-led space - not like another trauma loop waiting to happen.
You want to date with confidence, but you don’t want to repeat patterns, and feel frustrated on what the next right move is for you...
You’ve healed enough to know you don’t want the past again BUT not enough to fully trust yourself yet.
This isn’t about finding a man...
This is about becoming the version of you who set and holds standards that only emotionally available, committed men can be a match to.
You want dating to feel different in 2026?
It starts here.
You want to leave all of this behind in 2025...
• Confusing chemistry with safety
• Ignoring red flags because she wants connection
• Settling for crumbs because loneliness feels louder
• Losing yourself too fast
• Thinking attraction means “this must be the one”
• Repeating the same man in a different body
• Doubting her worth every time she texts
• Choosing from wounds instead of self-trust
Who you are ready to become...
The Woman Who Knows the Difference Between Chemistry and Safety:
Attraction doesn’t blind you anymore, it informs you.Your body reads men clearly.
Your intuition isn’t a whisper. It’s a siren you actually listen to.
The Woman Who Sees Red Flags the First Time:
You don’t excuse it. You don’t romanticize it. You don’t wait for it to get better. You trust the data and walk.
The Woman Who Refuses Crumbs:
No more breadcrumb approval. No more “at least he’s trying.”
You expect reciprocity, consistency, and clarity and you only entertain men who offer it.
The Woman Who Stays Herself:
You don’t shrink. You don’t perform. You don’t abandon yourself to be chosen.
You stay rooted in your voice, your needs, and your worth.
The Woman Who Knows Attraction Isn’t Destiny:
You’re no longer seduced by intensity, speed, or fantasy.
You choose men who feel solid, not thrilling, messy, confusing or chaotic.
You don’t fall for the familiar “type.” You don’t slip into old survival roles. You don’t mistake attention for intimacy.
You’re breaking generational and personal patterns at the same time.
The Woman Who Trusts Her Worth
You don’t overthink every text. You don’t audition for love. You don’t beg for reassurance.
You know your value and it shows in how you choose.
The Woman Who Chooses from Worth, Not Wounds
Your standards are clean. Your decisions are grounded. Your heart is protected without being closed.
You date from self-trust and the highest form of safety.
You’ll feel different in your body.
You’ll know where your standards live, not because you wrote them in a notebook ...
You can feel the difference between safety and chaos in your chest.
You’ll stop choosing from fear, loneliness, or habit and start choosing from self-worth, clarity, and grounded desire.
By Christmas you’re going to feel safe in your own body again. Clear on your standards and signals your nervous system gives you. You will be crystal clear on what you want in a relationship, rebuilding your releationship with yourself and jealing patterns you need to trust yourself again — the kind that keeps you from spiraling, overthinking, or falling for familiar pain wrapped in new packaging.
Your standards won’t be suggestions...they’ll be your spine.
By January, your confidence won’t be a performance, it’ll be how you actually move organically. You will have the kind of profile and presence that only attracts emotionally available, grown-ass men who are an actual match for you.
By Spring, you won’t even recognize your dating history because you’ll be attracting men who are actually capable of partnership, commitment, and emotional safety. You’ll be dating as a completely different woman — the one who doesn’t shrink, doesn’t settle, doesn’t contort herself to be chosen. You’ll be rooted in self-trust so strong that the wrong man can’t get close, and the right man recognizes you instantly.
- Two Live Coaching Calls with Meaghan
- Self-Safety Blueprint
- Nervous System Regulation that actually works
- Pleasure Mapping Training
- Confidence Implementation Exercises
BONUSES:
- Dating Profile Audit from Meaghan
- First Connection Messaging Script to filter men on day one
- Red Flag Detector
If you want 2026 to be the year you stop dating from wounds, and start choosing from worth - Sacred Standards Challenge is the Sexiest decision you can make for yourself.
This is the moment you get to decide to date intentionally so trauma doesn't keep picking your partner.