Forged in the Fire

You’ve been burned. Again. And again. And again.

By men who promised forever and delivered betrayal.

By family who should’ve protected you but chose abandonment.

By your own body, your own mind, your own addictions.

And every time, you swore you’d never let it happen again.

But here you are…

Staring at the ashes, wondering why chaos feels like home and safe feels like a threat.

This isn’t weakness.
This isn’t “bad luck.”
This isn’t a “bad picker.”
And it certainly is not “poor me”

This is trauma inheritance.

This is nervous system wiring.

This is what no one told you about why you keep getting burned.

What do you do when "your people" who should’ve loved you the most inflicted pain instead?

Most women harden.

They shut down.

They retaliate.

They decide safe love isn’t for them.

Fall into victim.

I didn’t.

I chose to heal in the fire.

This is the story no one tells...

The truth about what it actually takes to rise after narcissistic abuse, abandonment, addiction, eating disorders, and trauma that should have ended me.

On October 23rd, I’m going live to show you how the flames that were meant to destroy me became the exact fire that forged me so you can know how to do it too.

I left home at 14.

My parents had an insane divorce and chaos filled the home.

My father abandoned me.

Fifteen years of silence.

That wound was the spark.

It spread into anorexia, bulimia - kidney, heart and liver failure and 11 inpatient treatments.

My trauma then morphed into alcoholism, codependency, OCD, anxiety, depression. I tried to destroy myself before anyone else could…

My scars were deep.

I was wildly misunderstood.

And I trusted no one.

I wouldn’t eat to disappear, to have control.

And I drank to stop the pain until it didn’t work anymore…

One night I stood on a balcony wanting to end my life and forced myself into detox and AA.

Throughout came the narcissists.

Three relationships back-to-back.

One charmed me.

One hollowed me out.

One nearly finished me.

And everyone bet on me not coming back from this - that I would be bitter, angry, destructive.

But I refused.

Because I knew what it felt like to be alone.

I knew the fire.

And I decided if I was going to burn, I’d heal inside it.

But I would learn how to remain open hearted because nothing and no one controlled how I showed up in this world.

Which is exactly what I am going to teach you - and why I confidently say I can help you heal from anything....

That no talk therapist, no self-help book, no “just love yourself” advice taught me:

Trauma becomes your type. Until you rewire it, you will keep choosing pain.

Your parents wrote the first draft of your love story. Until you claim the pen, you’ll keep reading their script.

Safe love feels boring until you heal your nervous system to recognize it as safe.

The shadow you’re terrified of: the messy, rageful, broken, needy parts are the exact pieces that hold your power.

I didn’t heal by numbing.

I didn’t heal by waiting for a savior.

I didn’t heal by deciding I was more than what happened to me

And stronger than the fire.

I healed by going through the flames.

By rewiring my body, facing my shadow, and rewriting the story that trauma tried to hand me.

And what emerged? A woman no narcissist, no addict, no abandonment could touch.

Soft.
Open.
Detached.
Empathic.
Disciplined.
Awake.

And completely immune to being burned by anyone, or anything ever again.

What You’ll Learn:

On October 23rd, I’m going live for Forged in Fire, a one-night-only training where I’m pulling back the curtain on:

Why trauma becomes your type and how to finally break the cycle

The truth about trauma inheritance and why your parents’ wounds became your patterns

The exact practices that broke me free after three narcissistic relationships

Shadow work + nervous system rewiring and how I made safe love actually feel safe .

The standards I live by today and how you can build unshakable ones of your own This isn’t motivational.

This isn’t a feel-good chat, where we all hold hands, reliving past pain...

This is a holy fuck recalibration of how you love, live, and choose moving forward.

Has a desire to get to the ROOT

No longer wants to call chaos chemistry and pain love.

Is tired of dating the same type of person that just has a different face and name, reliving the same break up on repeat

Panics when love feels steady but lights up when love feels dangerous.

Refuses to shut down, harden, or settle.

But has no idea how to stop being burned, feeling insecure, looking for validation and safety outside of herself.

And knows she’s meant for more than survival driven shitty relationships she settles in

Most coaches teach band-aids.

Most therapists teach coping.

Most books teach survival.

I teach sovereignty.

The difference between women who keep getting burned and women who become unburnable isn’t luck, timing, or finding the “right guy.”

It’s nervous system rewiring.

It’s shadow integration.

It’s breaking the trauma inheritance that told you love equals pain.

That’s what I’m giving you on October 23rd.

Join me live on Zoom for Forged in Fire.

One night.

One story.

One blueprint to stop letting pain dictate your future.

The fire didn’t ruin me.

It refined me. Now it’s your turn.

Forged in Fire is your doorway.

After this event, you’ll know where you belong:

Reinvent, Rebuild, Redeem Membership: For women in the rebuilding stage who need to establish safety, nervous system healing, and guidance to break trauma bonds to learn a toxic, abusive or narcissistic relationship, while learning to love themselves in the process

Or

The Black Cat Academy: For women who have done some inner healing from abuse, and are ready to date safely, become the dark empath in their power, integrate their shadow, carry discernment and rise as the awakened force no narcissist can touch, and a good man can’t lose.

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